Recently I have met an amazing woman who has truly shown me how the Soul moves through life! I mentioned to her how I have been experiencing SUCH massive CHANGE in my world over the past few years and I wanted to understand why and or what the purpose was. She was telling me that CHANGE is inevitable, its about the relationship we form with change that allows us to “flow” through life with it or against it. For me it was about becoming VERY comfortable with the inevitable instability and insecurity of life. To own our authenticity and once we accept who we are 100% rather then who people want us to be or who we THINK we should be . . . this life becomes a whole lot easier and the FLOW, the CHANGE is actually a natural little dance we do as our soul glides through its lessons here in Soul school and learns how to be easier, be more fluid, flexible and GRACEFUL in this life. . . . this is what I am learning.
Sometimes subconsciously our higher self pushes us to “exaggerate” who we are in a negative sense to learn a lesson at a faster pace that we will need to learn sooner or later anyways. The Soul doesn’t want to waste time so it pushes against the things that ARE NOT WORKING for us, no matter how badly we want it too . . . we as humans must accept that the IDEAL is not the REAL. What we Ideally want for our lives, who we IDEALLY see ourselves with, it might feel ok, and we could be happy in certain situations but when you are on the path of a SEEKER, it will not be possible to come into the expansive destiny of the soul, of pure bliss on earth if you are hitting a ceiling with the person you are with or the situation you are in. If the 2 of you are not on a similar soul path, or do not have a spiritual practice you share as the nucleus of the relationship and bond you share, the “ceiling” factor will always come into effect. We as people are not able to reach the highest form of lasting HAPPINESS, expansive Joy and eternal growth without the guidance from the universe and something higher then ourselves, no matter who it is we bow to.
THIS is what I have recently learned. THIS is what I have been forced into accepting as TRUTH. It is very easier then we think to be happy in all situations when we have the connection to self and higher self. Whether it be a break up, a break down, a move, a loss of job, ect . . . when our IDENTITY is attached to nothing other then the evolution of our soul and our conscious path, the sadness is understood as a loss of HOPE, or a DREAM but it is greatly ACCEPTED as a loss of ego and a gain of TRUTH. The universe will always support our highest good when we are focused on this fact. Some things are meant to be for a reason, a time, a lesson, but when we are done with that lesson and we have grown beyond it or in a different direction we must let go even without immediate understanding, the faith will carry you through . . . THIS is the test as we may happily await the amazing shift and next level that life has prepared us for.
CHANGE is beautiful when we have the correct relationship with it, with self with our faith. I am grateful for this awareness, for this lesson, for the GRACE I am able to find during trying times that does nothing other then provide a stronger discipline and drive for me, a more open heart and a motivation I have not experienced before. To live more fully is the gift we get from “mistakes”, “pain”, “change”.
Om Shanti
Candace
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